(Confess) Reveal the secret or lie to Rabbi Jonathan
Discuss the destruction and decay the secret and ensuing cover-up may have caused
(Learn) Finding culpability – Sharing the blame with family members, friends
Build the foundation from which to come clean – show the person’s overall value and that they are a good person and that things don’t happen in a vacuum.
Self loathing is addressed and Jonathan builds the person up
(Explain) Recreating/re-enacting behaviors associated with the cover up
Meet a former Lie or Secret Carrier
Tension breaker – In the middle of the coming CLEAN™ process, Jonathan introduces an unrelated and slightly unnerving activity to help reset their attention. They can forget about the situation and approach the solution with fresh eyes.
View a candid interview with the people who have been lied to or didn’t know the truth about someone they loved
Consult different experts, on a case by case basis
(Accountability) Plan to reveal the truth
Who needs to be there
What is the setting
What is the format; group or one on one
When should it happen
Practice the reveal to Jonathan and/or other experts
Full Disclosure – at chosen venue and with friends/family etc.
(Nurture) Happily ever after
Next phase of life, reward, step up,
*All inquiries and counseling services are treated with the utmost in confidentiality and discretion and adhere to all Rabbinical and Pastoral expectations of non-disclosure.